When Tumblr chased away all the freaks, kinksters, and beautiful subcultural minorities in December 2018, most of us fled to find our space on alternative sites that would support our deviant and nsfw interests.
Personally, I found my space on bdsmlr after searching social media and some other sites. Since many of the Tumblr fetish (re)blogs consisted of images owned by who-knows-who, the idea of going public or mainstream with THAT type of blog was never an option, due to copyright issues. For those who don’t know what sexy Tumblr was, think of an adult Pinterest but without the links.
Ok, no… more like a collage of porn gifs, with some occasional words. A visual collection. Because if you ever had something to say, you better create a jpg for your words or you’re wasting your time typing, because no one gives a shit what you’re saying when you have all kinds of nakedness and pussy-eating in your line of sight. Should you add words to an image (as in an actual blog post), rebloggers would strip away the words and repost the image.
Like I said, a visual collage of naughty pictures.
I copied my entire Tumblr site here, merely as a backup (and in total private mode), and didn’t think much of it. Until I did. Now, in 2020.
You see, I used to write. A lot. For several decades. And I’ve been involved in the digital and IRL ‘adult’ lifestyle (both professionally and personally) since 2000. I’ve an ample supply of interesting stories and crazy experiences to warrant their own site, and it took me a while to realize that I can inform AND entertain people if I just got my shit together and wrote about them.
But I’m scattered as hell, and it’s hard to focus on ONE thing at a time, so I settled for a pseudo-site to satiate the NSFW part of my life and pushed the essay stuff til ‘one day’.
When I joined Tumblr in 2015, the intention was to use it as a base for my pro domme business… basically use it as my website. I thought I would be writing there, too. But, well, no.
It had some important pages but the rest of the posts were sexy and pretty, and it wasn’t really a space to write with all that nakedness. It’s either one or the other.
The sexy pic blog still lives on its new site, as sultry and delicious as ever… but it’s time for me to actually type like a person who has something to say.
If you like it, let me know. Maybe I’ll keep it up.
♥ ~T